Hi from an American living who has lived in the UK and is now living in Germany! I remember the metaphor that kept coming into my head the first few months in Germany was planting seeds. I would go to so many different meetup groups (mostly centered around writing) and feel frustrated that I wasn't instantly besties with people. Alas, life doesn't work like an elementary school playground. But after a few months there, I could see my planted seeds begin to sprout. It sounds like you've got the right mindset about the whole thing.
I've also recently learned about the "luck from motion," meaning you create your own luck by actively putting in effort and choosing to put yourself in new situations. Exactly what you're doing right now. I'm excited for your future updates :)
Edinburgh and Glasgow are really not that far apart. Consider how you probably would have spent an hour on the tube to meet a friend, without really thinking it excessive. I appreciate it’s not ideal for a quick pint after work, but it’s doable to maintain a friendship. Plus Edinburgh is lovely too! 😉 What about doing something like Borrow My Dog? You’d be meeting people who have dogs but also potentially others walking dogs? Also maybe look on Facebook for local groups that do something you are interested in. Or even an evening class?
No offence to Bren, but I'd say 70% of the best bits of my life happen by staying at home. 😁 Glad to hear you're settling in.
Hahaha I would highly agree with you there… thank you Anna!
Hi from an American living who has lived in the UK and is now living in Germany! I remember the metaphor that kept coming into my head the first few months in Germany was planting seeds. I would go to so many different meetup groups (mostly centered around writing) and feel frustrated that I wasn't instantly besties with people. Alas, life doesn't work like an elementary school playground. But after a few months there, I could see my planted seeds begin to sprout. It sounds like you've got the right mindset about the whole thing.
I've also recently learned about the "luck from motion," meaning you create your own luck by actively putting in effort and choosing to put yourself in new situations. Exactly what you're doing right now. I'm excited for your future updates :)
Hi Paige! Thank you for taking the time to comment. I love your analogy of planting seeds and seeing them eventually begin to sprout.
I also love the idea of luck from motion and am so on board with that. ✨
Hope you’re feeling settled and enjoying life in Germany!
Edinburgh and Glasgow are really not that far apart. Consider how you probably would have spent an hour on the tube to meet a friend, without really thinking it excessive. I appreciate it’s not ideal for a quick pint after work, but it’s doable to maintain a friendship. Plus Edinburgh is lovely too! 😉 What about doing something like Borrow My Dog? You’d be meeting people who have dogs but also potentially others walking dogs? Also maybe look on Facebook for local groups that do something you are interested in. Or even an evening class?
Thanks Helen! great suggestions!